As we move closer to this ascension graduation, people around the world (including our friends and family) are coming closer to their breaking points. It’s a beautiful necessary experience we all get to have, to die before death, to experience what it truly feels like to live.
“If you don’t die before you die, you die when you die”. -Johan from Goethe.
It’s best that the loved one actually comes and asks for the help ie they open the door to receive the conversation. But these are some special times and that can lend itself to special circumstances.
Either way we must first and foremost lay down all judgment, allowing a helpful heart to guide you both.
It’s incredibly important that we never assume and always listen more than we speak.
When one’s integrity begins to waver it’s often a reflection of their current self-worth beliefs, that and more often than not, their current experience is not that of their higher selves life path.
Prepare your loved one for the conversation that’s about to take place (the less dramatic the better).
Let them know that the things that you’re about to discuss will most likely make them emotional and that you are providing a safe place for them to feel through the experience.
Make them aware that you are going to be extremely transparent and that in doing so you will both find clarity in how to move forward, together.
Let them know that your questions are not about anyone being right but simply about discovering the emotional truth that lies beneath the behavior and inevitably coming to a win-win conclusion.
Transparently and neutrally toned, lie down the behaviors that are being exhibited that are not of integrity. Most often an emotion will present itself rather than words, as a response.
Allow the healing to take place while sending this person unconditional love as they experience, (what will most likely be a multitude of emotions from guilt, shame, embarrassment to sadness, frustration or anger… simultaneously.)
A massive hug is an incredible way to neutralize the energy before the conversation moves forward.
They are a beautiful soul making their way to their happiness, everything they are experiencing is perfect and as their guide you are not their to tell them what to do but to assist them in discovering their souls truth in how to move forward.
Remember you are not there to provide them answers, you are there to support them as they discover them for themselves, assisting them in asking the right questions, when necessary.
Follow your intuition, you are both divinely supported, always.