The loved-one should be the one that comes to you and asks for the assistance, ie they open the door to receive this conversation.
First and foremost get an understanding of what your friend is asking of you, what role are they asking you to play? Are you simply listening, so that they may vent. Are they looking for feedback? Are they looking for guidance?
Make loving EYE CONTACT.
Obviously lay down all judgment, allowing a tender heart to guide you both through the conversation. It’s incredibly important that we never assume, listen more than we speak, and always believe what someone is saying. Their truth is true to them. Whether that “truth” is a narrative or Galactic truth will be easy to sense.
Prepare your loved-one for the conversation that’s about to take place (the less dramatic the better). Let them know that transparency and honesty are the foundation of the conversation. And that what you’re about to discuss could possibly make them emotional and that you are providing a safe place for them to express that.
Provide them the awareness that you are going to be incredibly transparent and that in doing so you will both find clarity in how to move forward, together.
Let them know that your questions are not about anyone being right but simply about discovering the emotional narratives that lie beneath the expressed behavior, inevitably coming to a win-win conclusion.
win-win’s rule the world.
In some cases: (transparently and neutrally toned) lay out the behaviors that are being exhibited that are not of integrity. Most often an emotion will present itself rather than words, as a response.
Allow the dissolving to take place while telepathically sending this person unconditional love as they experience (what could be a range of things: from guilt, shame, embarrassment to sadness, frustration or anger…)
Remember as it leaves the mouth it dissolves. No need to pick it back up. Moving on.
As an idea reaches the viewing deck ie the conscious mind,
it is already done in the astral, there is nothing else to do, all is already done.
A massive hug is an incredible way to harmonize all energy
before the conversation moves forward.
They are a beautiful soul making their way to their happiness, everything they are experiencing is perfect and as their friend/family, you are not their to tell them what to do but to assist them in hearing their own voice as they move forward.
Remember you are not there to provide them answers, you are there to support them as they discover them for themselves, assisting them in asking the right questions, when necessary.
Follow your intuition, as you are both divinely supported… always!
*If you want my assistance let me know.
love you! xoxo torie.